But You’re Indian: Thoughts and Recommendations

Hello, hello! 

Lately, I’ve been posting all my non-review/recommendation pieces on Book Riot, which is fun and exciting but also kind of sad because I miss interacting with you, our regular readers and Book Warriors. *hugs* So, I’m going to try and post a few opinion pieces on here as well, maybe once every two months at the very least? We shall see. Anyway. To the point. Which is Bend It Like Beckham. And intersectionality. But first, the movie.

Bend It Like Beckham

For those of you who missed out on the cinematic perfection that is Bend It Like Beckham, it is a movie about Jasminder ‘Jess’ Kaur Bamra who, amidst the chaos of her sister’s engagement, wants to pursue her dream of being a professional football player. It is a passion that she must keep hidden from her parents who, like most desi parents I know, would prefer she pick a more financially secure future, one that does not involve short shorts. It’s directed by the fantastic Gurinder Chadha (who has also directed Bride & Prejudice, The Mistress of Spices, and Angus, Thongs, and Perfect Snogging) and has the best soundtrack ever. Well, okay, it had a soundtrack that I love anyway. 

The movie has many merits and many stand-out moments but the one that sticks out for me is the part where Jess’ childhood bestie, a guy she’s been playing football with forever, comes out to her. It’s a pretty smooth scene where they are talking about how much they love Beckham and he says, “No, Jess, I really like Beckham.” And while she is pretty cool about it later, at first she is confused and blurts, “But you’re Indian!” 

And that is just the thing, isn’t it? 1.2 billion Indian people on this planet—maybe not even counting the ones who have left the country—and as far as any media is concerned we are all straight, cis-gendered, able-bodied, and happy. Dyslexia? Nope, must be lazy. Just slap him around or give him a tutor. Depression? Why? Don’t you have everything you need? Gay? I’m sorry, do you want to be written out of my will? 

We are allowed to be brown-skinned and … yeah, that’s it. You’ve filled the Other quota. You’re done. This is your story now. What’s that? You want to be on TV? Well, I hope you like playing Nerd #3, because that’s all the story you get. Sorry, your last name is literally Khan? Sorry, but we think Benedict Cumberbatch is a better match! Oh, you’re a girl? How about my fascinating take on arranged marriages? Or maybe you’d like to be Nameless Best Friend #2? Aziz Ansari did a pretty awesome job with highlighting some of the problems of being a brown person in Western media in his Netflix hit Master of None, and the sad truth is that as long as we are represented as caricatures we won’t get to see any representations of intersectionality. 

The thing about Bend It Like Beckham is that we never really see what becomes of Jess’ friend Tony. Jess gets her happy ending and Tony ??? I wish I knew. Still. While the number of Indian characters and Indian stories (whatever that means) is still unimpressively low, I do think YA Lit is doing better with the concept of intersectionality in general. So, after that long rant, here are some reading recs:

  • More Happy Than Not by Adam Silvera: A difficult read about identity and memory. I’m going to take a stand and say that it is pretty close to perfect when it comes to talking about race, sexuality, and depression.
  • Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe by Benjamin Alire Sáenz: Do I need to talk about this book again? I mean, look at all the stickers on the cover! Just go read it!
  • The Bane Chronicles by Cassandra Clare, Sarah Rees Brennan, and Maureen Johnson: I have talked about this book too many times already. Intersectionality doesn’t have to mean MY STRUGGLE: A MEMOIR. Sometimes, you are a POC who is bisexual and enjoys pretending to be a pirate. 
  • The Chaos by Nalo Hopkinson: I am still reading this, so this isn’t a proper recommendation BUT YOU GUYS NEED TO MEET BEN OKAY. 
  • A Time to Dance by Padma Venkatraman: A verse novel about a classical dancer who meets with an accident, leaving her a below-knee amputee. I haven’t read it yet but it’s been getting rave reviews, including from Nafiza.
  • Tiny Pretty Things by Sona Charaipotra and Dhonielle Clayton: I cannot begin with how well this book represents intersectional identities. Do yourself a favour and pick it up.
  • Beyond: the Queer Sci-Fi & Fantasy Comic Anthology edited by Sfé Monster and Taneka Stotts: NGL, I have a couple of problems with this anthology BUT I need everyone to please read “Of Families and Other Magical Objects” by Reed Black.
  • The Real Boy by Anne Ursu: This is a little iffy because it’s fantasy that doesn’t describe race very well but I read Oscar as a character of colour and we see the world through his eyes, so I think this is a very important addition to this conversation.
  • Serpentine by Cindy Pon: Guys. Just. Can you please read it?! Queer ladies of colour! So well-written! Fantasy! Plus, we are going to get Zhen Ni’s POV in the next one, so yay! 

And if you’re in the mood for web-comics …

  • Mooncakes by Wendy Xu and Suzanne Walker: *gets in your face* QUEER! ASIAN! WITCHES! 
  • 150 Days by KnightJJ: Because interracial relationship does not always have mean white/POC. 

So, my list is a general one—you celebrate where you can or fall into a pit of despair—but if you have any recs with Indian characters in specific, let me know in the comments!

Happy Friday!

13 responses to “But You’re Indian: Thoughts and Recommendations

  1. I LOVE Bend it Like Beckham. Have watched it an embarrassing number of times. And I totally agree with the representation of brown people in popular media. So unfortunate :(

    But these look like some pretty good recs. Hope to check some of them out soon :)

    • Seriously, as I wrote this I was all, “Yeah, time for a re-watch …”

      And yay! I hope you like reading whichever of my recs you pick up! :)

  2. agree with the comment about representation** Don’t agree with the way it’s done now, my goodness. What a typo ;)

  3. As an Indian living in Singapore, I completely agree with the coming out situation in Indian households. The word ‘gay’ is completely taboo and people who want to join show business are generally scoffed at. Sad, huh?

    Great post, by the way. 😀

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